Clearing the Mental Clutter of Job Stress

Stress loves mental clutter.  As the pile of clutter grows in a person’s mind, stress becomes more powerful.  The clutter creates confusion, making it difficult to see the important things, the things that a person needs to do.   The confusion creates doubt and lowers self-confidence, creating more stress.  The growing stress robs a person’s energy.  Lower energy leads to inaction, procrastination.  Inaction creates greater mental clutter.

Mental Clutter>>Confusion>>Doubt>>Stress>>Fatigue>>Less Action>>Greater Mental Clutter>>Greater Confusion>>Greater Doubt>>Higher Stress>>Greater Fatigue>>More Procrastination>>so goes the cycle.

Write about it. When I am feeling stressed about something, writing takes the power from the anxiety.  Just putting something on my calendar or task list helps clear my mind, but the thought of an upcoming event can still make me feel stress.

Therefore, I can name the problem and write it down.  For example, I might write, “I am afraid that I will miss my flight.”

Then I can write a solution.  “I will make my flight, because I will go to the airport early and read a book until my flight boards.”

A more complex example is how one of my friends prepares lectures he gives to other doctors.  Speaking to a public audience is stressful for nearly everyone.  Imagine a speaker with a cluttered mind.  Just picking and sticking to a topic is difficult.  Even if you have never spoken to an audience, imagine the pain of living in anxiety before speaking.

My friend is an expert in his field of medicine.  The first time he gave one of his lectures, just thinking about the presentation made him nervous.  As he spent more he thinking about speaking to an audience, he became more nervous

He wrote, “I am nervous about giving this presentation to a group of doctors.”

Then he outlined what he wanted to say.   It occurred to him that he was not the subject of the presentation.  His knowledge was the subject.  He began to see his audience as people who needed the information that he could give them.  He could help them become more successful in their medical practices through learning what he had to say.

He focused on writing out the details that would benefit his audience the most.  As he wrote, he gained confidence.  He saw the value in his knowledge.

Instead of writing that he is nervous, he writes, “What is the most important information I can give my audience during the time I have?”

He has given the lectures for over a decade.  He continues to update his presentations.  His ideas are current, relevant.  New audiences need his knowledge as much as the first audiences did.  He keeps his mind clear by sweeping out the clutter and doubt through preparation, writing out his presentations.

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6 Steps for Turning Monday Blues into Power Mondays

Shakespeare, Hamlet, Act II, Scene 2:  “… for there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.”

Winning teams and players come out of the locker room ready to play.  Monday blues can distract anyone from starting the week with a winning attitude and mentality.  Here are six steps that can help you start Monday ready to go work and give a winning performance.

1. Having a power phrase is a great way to start Monday or any other door of the week.  On Monday morning, a trainer at a local health club greets people coming in the door with an enthusiastic “Finally a Monday!” He psyches himself for the day and spreads his enthusiasm to everyone who walks through the door.

2. Eat healthy foods and cut the caffeine Sunday night. Good nutrition can help you sleep and feel rested for the beginning of the week.

3. Scheduling fun things to do during the week can fill Monday with great expectations.  I schedule meetings with friends on a regular basis during the middle of the week.   In the winter, bowling, playing cards, meeting for dinner, or any fun relaxing event that creates expectation can make the week more fun.  In warmer weather, outdoor activities are a lot of fun and create expectation for the week ahead.

4. Using Sunday night to list Monday’s activities takes the weight of starting the week out of my mind.  Scheduling things and setting priorities the night before any workday is always a good idea.  The list changes the muddle of things wandering through my mind to a short list.

5. Listen to motivational recordings during your commute.  Getting great positive thinking piped into my mind helps me enjoy my day.  Motivational and inspirational speakers sell audio material.  Ted Talks also has a downloadable spreadsheet of podcasts.  You can Google “most popular free podcasts” and find great lists of listening material to make your morning commute more fun.

6. Get to work early.  I have a friend who has a long commute in heavy traffic.  He has joined a health club near his office.  He grabs a cup of coffee at 5:00 AM and drives to the health club before going to work.  He avoids the rush-hour traffic.  His commute is more pleasant.  He starts his day energized from his exercise.

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Finding and Verifying Email Addresses

Finding Email Addresses

A simple way to find an email address, put the name of the person and the domain name of the company in a search engine.  “email * * companyname.com”  *.edu, *.gov, *.net, *.com, *.org

Example: “First Name, Last Name ** examplecompany.com”

Verifying Email Addresses

Sometimes I find that I have an email address, but I am not certain that the email address is correct.  I could just try sending an email to the email address to see if I get a bounce back on the email.  However, some domains have a catchall feature where all the incorrectly addressed emails are held.  I may not get a bounce back and will have no way of knowing whether the email address is incorrect.  I have found this website helpful for confirming email addresses:

Follow this link:  Email Verifier.

The Power of Social Media for Employment Vetting

The Power of Social Media for Employment Vetting: Vetting means to investigate a person’s background thoroughly to decide if the person is a right fit for a job.

Yes, vetting goes two ways.  Employers can research applicants on social media.  Applicants can research employers and their companies on social media.

Some of the places to learn more about people include these websites:

  • LinkedIn
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • Flickr
  • Tumblr
  • WordPress
  • Blogger
  • Quora
  • YouTube
  • Reddit
  1. Stay positive in your comments.
  2. Stay away from subjects like race, religion, politics, or sex.
  3. Avoid the social sites when you are tired, grumpy, drinking, or any condition that might lead you to say things that can create controversy.
  4. Stay away from online discussions that are argumentative.

Social media is a real asset for promoting your career and your business.  Plan what you are gong to write.  Use good spelling and grammar.  Have a purpose to what you are writing.  Ask yourself, “What do I hope to do by saying this?”  Polish your personal profile to create the reputation you want to have.

When you are vetting other people, look at what you are reading in context.  If a person makes a joke on Facebook, the context might be right.  It is less appropriate for a person to make a joke on a LinkedIn profile.

6 Ways to Test Drive a New Job Before You Commit

Here are six tips to help you try out a new job.

See how jobs are working for other people. During a terrific vacation in Kona, Hawaii, my wife and    spent a day on the beach at the King Kamehameha Hotel. During the day, I bought lunch at a beachside sandwich stand. Later that year, my wife and I attended a comedy club near our home in Sacramento. Prior to the show, I chatted with the owner of the club, who told me that he owned a sandwich shop on the beach in Kona. His sandwich shop was the same place where I had bought lunch a few months before. The coincidence was interesting. However, what I found more interesting is that this man had success at finding things that he enjoyed doing in places that enjoyed traveling. He had a knack for starting low-cost operations that involved things he really enjoyed. He turned the things he loved to do into businesses.

Try taking vacation days to research your job. Before I got into the recruiting industry, I took a couple of vacation days and spent a day in the office of two recruiting firms. I learned that what the people were doing in these companies were things that I could do. One of the recruiters had the same background that I had. Seeing the similarity of his experience and my experience, I was able to know that my skills crossed over to the job of a recruiter. This type of work-with research is a customary practice.

You might consider an internship. Before signing up for an internship, find out the purpose of the role. If you see that the internship teaches you things that help you learn about types of jobs or prepares you for a job. During the internship, you can learn if that type of job is right for you.

For questions about compensation for internships see
https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fact-sheets/71-flsa-internships

Volunteer work actually can lead to a job. Community service organizations, churches, hospitals, and schools are wonderful places to look for volunteer opportunities. I have an in-law who started working in a volunteer program a couple of days a week. She enjoyed what she was doing. She enjoyed working with the people. She enjoyed what the organization did. There was some magic in the connection and the volunteer project turned into a paying job.

Some companies pay people for project or consulting work. These types of jobs work great with companies that allow people to work from home. Freelance writers, programmers, accountants, researchers, and other skilled professionals find that this type of work through Internet search or through direct referral from other professionals. These types of jobs are great for deciding what you might want to do long-term.

Temporary to permanent is a fantastic way for people to find and test all types of jobs. I hired two temporary clerical employees who worked for me for over five years. Recent college graduates find that temporary to permanent is a wonderful way to break into an industry.

Power Assessment: Are People Your Greatest Asset?

Power Assessment: Are People Your Greatest Asset?

There is an old saying on Wall Street that the company’s assets go up and down with the elevator every day.

When I went through orientation at Procter & Gamble, the trainer explained to me that the philosophy of the company is that its people are its greatest asset.  He stated that if the company lost all of its assets and kept it entire organization, it could rebuild itself in ten years.  There is certainly nothing to substantiate that statement, but it gives some perspective of the value that Procter & Gamble places on the people it hires and the people it keeps.

“People are our greatest asset” is a common statement among business leaders.  I have read articles in which writers have stated initially that people are not a company’s greatest asset.  What I find is that the purpose of these articles is to create a headline for attention and to draw the reader off topic.  For example, some writers argue that people management is more important than the people themselves are.  What is rather obvious is these writers are confusing the issues of assets and asset management, entirely for effect.

Dishonest people are liabilities.  Other writers talk off topic about people as an asset and confuse the issue by drawing attention to brilliant people whose conduct brought companies down:  to mention a few, Bernie Ebbers (WorldCom), Kenneth Lay (Enron) Bernie Madoff (Madoff Investment Securities LLC), John Rigas (Adelphia Communications Corporation), and others. Obviously, dishonest people are liabilities.

The greatest assets of a company are sometimes one or two great founders:  Ed Land (Polaroid Corporation), Ernest Gallo and Julio Gallo (E.&J. Winery),  Sam Walton (Walmart), Steve Jobs (Apple), and others

Of course, great companies devote a great deal of money and time to train and manage the people in their organization.  These organizations start with training their people from the beginning.  As people continue through each level of development and as the company changes it products and operations, great companies continue to train their people to do their job.  The skills of the people grow as they grow in responsibility and as the company grows.

Employees vary in value based on how well they do their job and how much they learn about their company and their industry.  This fact is great news for people who work harder, take better care of themselves mentally and physically, are more conscientious about their performance, and build relationships within and for their employer.  This places the asset management in the hands of employees at least to have a role in managing their career.

The best places to find the greatest people are at the companies that place the greatest value on people as assets:  General Mills, Zappos, USAA, Salesforce.com, and hundreds of other companies.  As a corporate recruiter, I found training companies that hired too many great people for the growth of the company would experience relatively high turnover.  These companies were gold mines for sources to fill the needs of my clients.

The greatest talent does not always make for the greatest assets.  From a stability standpoint, companies that value a mix of talented, experienced, developmental hires combined with people who progress less rapidly find that some of the less talented more long-term people can offer tremendous value.  These people stay in the same job as people progress beyond them.  The great value of these people in the long-term is their ability to build a strong asset base to support the company.  The military has most clearly defined these roles in creating the ranks of enlisted men and officers.  The enlisted pay grade E-7 is the backbone of the United States military.

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Find an Email Address for Almost Anybody

Find an Email Address for Almost Anybody
Find an Email Address for Almost Anybody

DEEP-WEB SOURCING THAT REVEALS INTERNET DETAILS OF A PERSON’S PICTURE AND INTERNET-POSTED BIOGRAPHICAL INFORMATION.
This video presents quite a bit of information in a short space, but is very easy to understand. Rob Ousbey has created a Google Document that formats 45 possible email addresses based on a person’s first name, middle name, last name, and the domain of the person’s email addresses.

By putting this list of formatted email addresses into the “To” field of a Gmail, you can then mouse over the email addresses.  Gmail then produces from its worldwide database of known profiles a picture and other known information about each person.

SOURCE
http://www.distilled.net/about/people/rob-ousbey/”>Distilled.net
Author: Rob Ousbey, from Distilled.net
Add Gmail Extension from rapportive.com/
Location of Google Document for creating email list:http://bit.ly/name2email

 

LinkedIn: Who Can See My Profile?

LinkedIn:  Who Can See My Profile? 

By default, everyone in the world can see your public profile on LinkedIn without signing in to LinkedIn.  That is why LinkedIn calls these profiles “public profiles.”

You can alter the settings to restrict what information is available to the public.  In their words, LinkedIn allows you to “Control how you look when people search for you on Google, Yahoo!, Bing, etc.”

Here are the steps to changing those settings.

Breadcrumbs:  LinkedIn>>Photo top-right corner>>Privacy and Settings>>Edit your public profile>>settings options.

This is the process step by step.

Step 1:  Sign into to LinkedIn.

Step 2:  Hold your cursor over the image in the upper right-hand corner of the page and you will see a drop-down menu.

Step 3:  Click “Privacy and Settings.”

When you land on the Account Settings page, you will see this set of options:

Settings
Manage your Twitter settings
Helpful Links
Edit your name, location & industry
Edit your profile
Edit your public profile
Manage your recommendations

Step 4:  Click “Edit your public profile.‘

You will have these options:

Profile Content
Make my public profile visible to no one
Make my public profile visible to everyone

  •  Basics
  •  Name, industry, location, number of recommendations
  •  Picture
  •  Headline
  •  Summary
  •  Current Positions
  •  Past Positions
  •  Skills
  •  Education
  •  Additional Information
  •  Interested In

LinkedIn: Can People Tell that I Have Looked at their Profile?

By default, yes, people can tell that you have looked at their profile.  LinkedIn puts your photo and your name on the profile page of people you view.

Here is a detailed set of directions.

Step 1:  Sign into to LinkedIn.

Step 2:  Hold your cursor over the image in the upper right-hand corner of the page and you will see a drop-down menu.

Step 3:  Click “Privacy and Settings.”

When land on the Account Settings page, you will see this set of options:
Privacy Controls

Turn on/off your activity broadcasts
Select who can see your activity feed
Select what others see when you’ve viewed their profile
Select who can see your connections
Change your profile photo & visibility »
Show/hide “Viewers of this profile also viewed” box

Step 4:  Click “Select what others see when you’ve viewed their profile.”

You will these options.
“You name and headline”
“Anonymous profile characteristics such as industry and title”
“Totally anonymous”

Facebook: Can people tell that I’ve looked at their Timeline?

Facebook answers this question and includes a separate question that it words slightly differently, “Can I know who’s looking at my Timeline or how often it’s being viewed?”

“Your Timeline is your collection of the photos, stories, and experiences that tell your story.”

The links to the questions above and the following list of questions are on a Facebook.com page titled “Common Myths About Facebook.”

“Will Facebook ever charge for service?
Do advertisers have access to my personal information?
Does Facebook sell my information?
Can people tell that I’ve looked at their Timeline?
Can I know who’s looking at my Timeline or how often it’s being viewed?”
Can people see my private messages on my Timeline?
What personal information is shared with sites that use social plugins?
The app I’m using says I need to download something, fill out a survey or sign into Facebook again to see special content. Is this true?”

“No, Facebook doesn’t let people track who views their Timeline.  Third-party apps also can’t provide this functionality. If you come across an app that claims to offer this ability, please report the app.”

Source: Facebook.com