Unless your business is politics or religion, using politics or religion to promote your business is a bad idea. ~ Jay Wren
What happens is that brand identity conflicts with deeply ingrained beliefs that inflame emotions and sway decisions.
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Happy people enjoy life. They fill their day with joy. They embrace kindness and share warmth and understanding. They allow themselves to forgive people so that they themselves can be free from anger. ~ Jay Wren
What are you most worried about for the future? This is a question that many people ask themselves, especially in times of uncertainty and change. Some of the common worries that people have are related to their health, their finances, their relationships, their environment, and their purpose. These worries can cause stress, anxiety, and depression if they are not addressed or managed properly.
Let your worries motivate you to find solutions. Let your imagination turn your solutions into opportunities for happiness and success.
Positive Expectations Create Joy and Power
Positive expectations are powerful tools that can help us achieve our goals and overcome challenges. They can also boost our happiness, confidence, and well-being. In this article, we will explore how positive expectations work, why they are important, and how we can cultivate them in our daily lives.
Positive expectations are beliefs or assumptions that something good will happen or that we will succeed in each situation. They influence our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and shape our reality. When we have positive expectations, we tend to focus on the positive aspects of our circumstances, see opportunities instead of obstacles, and persist in the face of difficulties. We also tend to attract positive outcomes, as we act in ways that align with our expectations and create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Positive expectations are important because they can enhance our performance, motivation, and resilience. Research has shown that people who have positive expectations tend to perform better in various domains, such as academics, sports, and health. They also tend to have higher levels of motivation, as they set challenging but realistic goals and work hard to achieve them. Moreover, they tend to have greater resilience, as they cope better with stress, adversity, and failure.
Here are some steps to cultivate positive expectations in our daily lives.
By following these tips, you can develop a positive mindset that will help you reach your full potential and enjoy life more. Remember, positive expectations are not unrealistic or naive; they are realistic and empowering. They are not about ignoring or denying reality; they are about creating and shaping reality. So, start today and expect the best for yourself and your future!
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If you ask the right questions, setbacks are not failures. They are opportunities to learn new solutions. ~ Jay Wren
Even with a perfect product and plan, business campaigns can meet resistance. Sometimes, these plans fail completely. However, there are methods for working through setbacks and putting a plan back on track. Moreover, there are times to recognize that a plan or project is simply going to fail. Rather than pushing ahead with a failing project, successful people redirect their efforts to new projects for success.
Here are steps that involve self-awareness for bouncing back. Ask questions that will help you understand your situation. Become aware of your situation and your options for success.
“What can I do differently?”
“Do I need to change my strategy?”
“Is there a better design for my product?”
“Who can help me find solutions or approaches?”
“Is there a proven method that I should adopt?”
Are there examples of how other people have successfully dealt with the same situation?
Can I layout a new plan based on answers to these questions?
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Sometimes, people struggle with living in the present moment. They are either haunted by the past or worried about the future. They miss the beauty and joy of life as it unfolds in front of them. They are not fully aware of their thoughts, feelings, sensations, and surroundings. They are not mindful.
Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment with curiosity and openness. It is a skill that people can learn and cultivate through various techniques, such as meditation, breathing exercises, yoga, and journaling. Mindfulness can help us live in the present moment more fully and intentionally.
Why is living in the present moment important? There are benefits of being mindful and present. Here is a brief list of those benefits.
Living in the present moment can reduce stress and anxiety. When we are mindful, we are less likely to ruminate over the past or worry about the future. We can accept what is happening right now without judging it or resisting it. We can cope with challenges more effectively and calmly.
Living in the present moment can enhance our happiness and well-being. When we are mindful, we are more likely to notice and appreciate the positive aspects of our lives, such as our relationships, our achievements, our hobbies, and our health. We can also savor the pleasant experiences and emotions that we encounter in our daily lives.
Living in the present moment can improve our performance and productivity. When we are mindful, we are more focused and attentive to the task at hand. We can avoid distractions and procrastination. We can also be more creative and innovative, as we are open to innovative ideas and perspectives.
Living in the present moment can foster our growth and learning. When we are mindful, we are more curious and willing to explore new things. We can also learn from our mistakes and feedback, as we are not defensive or ashamed of them. We can embrace challenges and opportunities as ways to improve ourselves.
How can we live in the present moment more often? There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as different people may find different methods more suitable for them. However, here are general tips that can help us become more mindful and present:
Set aside time every day to practice mindfulness. This can be as simple as taking as focusing on your breath, or as elaborate as doing a guided meditation or a yoga session. The key is to be consistent and committed to your practice.
Incorporate mindfulness into your daily activities. You can practice mindfulness while doing anything, such as eating, walking, driving, and working. The key is to pay attention to what you are doing, feeling, thinking, and sensing in each moment.
Use reminders and cues to bring yourself back to the present moment. You can use anything that works for you, such as an alarm, a bracelet, a sticker, or a mantra. The key is to use them regularly and consciously to remind yourself to be mindful.
Be compassionate and gentle with yourself. You may not be able to live in the present moment all the time, and that’s okay. You may get distracted or forgetful sometimes, and that’s normal. The key is to acknowledge your lapses without judging or criticizing yourself, and then gently bring yourself back to the present moment.
Living in the present moment is not easy, but it is possible and rewarding. It can help us live happier, healthier, and more fulfilling lives. It can also help us make a positive difference in the world around us. So why not try it?
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Success comes more easily when you can play to your strengths.
Jay Wren
Strengths:
Weaknesses:
It is important to note that these are just examples, and your own strengths and weaknesses may vary. The key is to be honest and authentic when discussing your strengths and weaknesses, and to focus on the areas where you are most confident and capable.
Here are some tips for answering the “strengths and weaknesses” question in a job interview:
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The willingness of people to believe what they see on the Internet tells me that artificial intelligence may soon if not already be programming humans.
~ Jay Wren
Experts now believe that 42% of the information on the Internet comes from bots. Bots post human created content. Humans respond to content on a conscious level and an unconscious. At the unconscious level, our minds respond to content emotionally. The emotions are centered in our beliefs. We feel a range of emotions from neutral to very strong. Positive feelings draw us to or push away from the people, places, and things in our life. Writers, advertisers, politicians, and clergy use words to influence our thinking, reinforce our beliefs, and direct our actions. Artificial intelligence can now create and publish content on the Internet.
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With the Internet, the truth is right there, for everyone. At the same time, politicians and political influencers, more than ever, have normalized lying and people believe them. Why? Because a sweet lie is so delicious.
Why do we lie to ourselves?
We may lie to ourselves to avoid painful truths, to boost our confidence, to persist in our goals, to create a favorable impression, or to support our beliefs.
Lying to ourselves can reduce stress and enhance our self esteem. It can make us feel safe in our beliefs. However, lying to ourselves distorts reality and impaires our judgment. Therefore, it is important to be aware of our willingness to see the world in a light that just makes us comfortable.
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Feeling Anxious? Try Smiling. ~www.jaywren.com
Anxiety can make you avoid opportunities for work, fun, and networking. It can cut your opportunities for leadership roles. Your anxiety can generate signals that make it harder for people to reach out to you.
There are many things that you can do to calm your jitters. Perhaps the most overlooked way is simply to smile. People smile when they are happy. And equally important is that smiling can help you feel happy.
The smiley face emoji says to other people you approve of what they have to say. Smiling has a similar effect. It tells people you approve of them. It creates trust and helps people open up to you.
You are generating charisma. People find your presence attractive. Your smiling helps people feel more confident and comfortable being around you. In turn, they smile and you feel confident from their signal of approval.
A frown will chase away friends. Ah, but there is something about a smile that attracts people and draws people to you.
So, let it go. When you see people, start with a smile. As people approach, nod and smile. When you are shaking hands with people, look at them and smile.
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