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Are You and Influencer or an Addict on Social Media?

Are You and Influencer or an Addict on Social Media? Maybe you are both.

Social media can be a powerful tool for good. Use it to raise awareness about critical issues, support causes you care about, and connect with others who share your values. Also, social media can cause depression, confusion, destroy your privacy and security, ruin your relationships with friends and family.

1. Scrolling aimlessly on social media is addictive. Stop it Stand up and take a walk.

It’s easy to get sucked into the endless scroll of social media, wasting hours of our time. Be mindful of how much time you’re spending on social media, and make sure that it’s not taking away from other important activities in your life, such as spending time with loved ones, pursuing your hobbies, or getting enough sleep.

When you find that you are just scrolling on social media, close your apps and put your device away. Get physically active.

2. Be intentional about what you post.

If you want to build an audience, know what your audience wants to know.

Before you post anything on social media, take a moment to think about what you’re saying and how it might be perceived by others. Avoid posting anything that is offensive, inflammatory, or hurtful. Be respectful of others’ opinions, even if you don’t agree with them.

3. Be careful about sharing personal information.

Social media is a public platform, so be careful about sharing personal information that you wouldn’t want to be seen by everyone in the world. This includes your address, phone number, email address, and other sensitive information.

4. Use social media to connect with others.

Social media is a terrific way to stay connected with friends and family, both near and far. Use it to share updates about your life, reach out to old friends, and make new connections.

5. Use social media to learn about the world around you.

Social media can be a terrific way to learn about current events, diverse cultures, and innovative ideas. Follow news organizations, experts, and thought leaders on social media to stay informed and engaged with the world around you.

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“Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life.” Mark Twain

Create a New Day

“Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life.” Mark Twain

I decide every day what kind of day I am going to have. I can either dread it or stay in the present movement and only think about things as they happen.

Depending on what was going on the day before and what I expect to happen today, I may get out of bed feeling frustrated, grateful, full of great expectation, or not aware of my feelings at all.

My instinct is to grab a cup of coffee and sit down at my desk and dive into my work. This is not a good routine. If I want to love my day, I need to clear my head and decide that I am going to be happy and grateful. Making a gratitude list is a good place to start to brighten my day.

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Wouldn't it be great if you could make everyone on the Internet either agree with you or shut the heck up? Jay Wren

Why Intelligent People Say Stupid Things on the Internet

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make everyone on the Internet either agree with you or shut the heck up?  You betcha.  I’ve tried.  But they don’t shut up.  They just come back and post more stuff to tick you off.  I can either embrace them or avoid them.

Emotions and Critical Thinking

Beliefs are convictions or assumptions that people hold to be true, even if they can’t be proven or disproven. When issues challenge our beliefs and stir our emotions, we find comfort in seeking information to confirm our beliefs. To think critically, we must free ourselves from our emotions. However, religious, political, and cultural beliefs are not like math or chemistry. These beliefs vary based on ideas that make us feel safe and accepted.

The Risks of  Saying Stupid Stuff on the Internet

Wow, the Internet is immediate and permanent.  And that’s a long time!  I see screen captures of deleted Tweets, Facebook posts, and Instagram on the Internet all the time.

I have posted and deleted material I later thought might possibly be sketchy.  When my gut tells me that I am posting something sketchy, I side with my gut. There is absolutely nothing I can post in a forum that is worth my reputation.

Trolling and Trolls

I love Internet forums.  I read forums for fun and for information.

But forums have a sneaky way of getting readers into a blind date with a troll.  A few months ago, I made the mistake of giving my opinion as opposed to the facts on a forum, only to find that a troll challenged me to explain myself.  Answering the person would only have made the conversation grow.  How wonderful, I could have a relationship with a troll!  I deleted the comment.

On a gut level, the idea of trolling has some appeal.  You know, you create a sneaky identity just to sound off with your opinions and set people right.  But this tactic has a price, especially when people lift your covers.  I read an article a few months ago about a politician who spent $35,000 to find the identity of a troll.  And he found him!

Occasionally, I read an offensive post, something intended to tick people off, at least tick some people.  These posts have a magic for creating rants and counter rants.  People who know how to troll take as much or more pleasure in making people angry as they do in attracting people who agree with them.  Reacting to trolling just raises the post in forum streams.  I just let it go, let it go, let it go.  ♫ ♫ ♫

How to Lose Friends and Lose Influence: Talk about Politics on the Internet

The web is rife with political stuff during political seasons.  Most people have a bias more than a brain when it comes to politics.  Politicians do not give people information.  They give people sound bites, clickbait and headlines to chum the waters for political fish.  People can rise to the bait suck it up.  But political chum is less cool in business and social forums. When I see people posting chum in my Internet feeds, I unfollow them.  See ya, not.  Don’t want your tweets. Don’t want your face on Facebook.  Don’t want your political wisdom on LinkedIn. No, no, no, not now, not ever.

I don’t unfriend them or disconnect from them all the time.  I just unfollow Friends Who Post Politics on the Internet.

Beliefs and claims are important elements in critical thinking because they provide the foundation for reasoning and evaluating evidence. Beliefs are convictions or assumptions that a person holds to be true, even if they can’t be proven or disproven. They often shape a person’s perspective and understanding of the world. Claims, on the other hand, are statements that can be evaluated based on evidence. In critical thinking, it is important to distinguish between beliefs and claims. One should not take their beliefs as fact without evaluating the evidence and reasoning behind them. Additionally, one should evaluate claims by examining the evidence and reasoning presented, and considering alternative perspectives.It is also important to be aware of one’s own beliefs, and to be open to re-evaluating them in light of new evidence. This allows for more accurate and fair evaluations of claims.Overall, critical thinking requires a balance of considering one’s own beliefs and claims, while also evaluating the evidence and reasoning behind them.

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The Power of Information If your friends, social media, and daily news make you fearful, hateful, and angry, you need better sources of information. Spend time with people, social media, and daily news that give you hope, joy, and solutions that lead to success in your life. ~ Jay Wren

The Power of Information

The Power of Information
If your friends, social media, and daily news make you fearful, hateful, and angry, you need better sources of information. Spend time with people, social media, and daily news that give you hope, joy, and solutions that lead to success in your life.  ~ Jay Wren

 

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In political discussions, the first thing to go is rational thinking. The next things to go are friends and followers. www.jaywren.com

How to Lose Friends and Followers on the Internet

Losing friends and followers on the Internet is much easier to do than increasing friends and followers. Here are things I try to do to build my network.

Trolling and Trolls

I love Internet forums.  I read forums for fun and for information.

But forums have a sneaky way of getting readers into a blind date with a troll. A few months ago, I gave my opinion on a political forum, only to find that another person snapped back at me.  The wrong way to respond to the negative comment is to reply to the comment. First, I would have given that person attention. Second, there is risk that the person would become a troll and follow me into other social media websites. How wonderful, I could have a relationship with a troll!

I deleted the comment.

Some trolls will post articles intended just to get a reaction from readers. The readers get upset. Comments turn into rants in running streams of comments. Others slap back. The more that people comment, the higher the post rises in Internet attention.

On LinkedIn, for example, when I comment on an article, my comment makes the article appear in my account. From there, other people see the post and may click to follow it. Then, when people comment on the article in my LinkedIn activity feed, the article can appear their LinkedIn account. The article becomes viral.

Internet Policing

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make everyone on the Internet either agree with us? Correcting people on the Internet feels so satisfying while I am writing my comment. But the blowback can get ugly.

Moreover, policing the Internet can damage relationships. As much as I want to fix what I see, I do not know how other people feel amount my correcting them. I can burn bridges and never know it.

Correcting People on The Internet is not my job.

Politics

Not all your friends and followers agree with your politics. The web is rife with political articles and post, especially during political seasons.  when it comes to politics, most people have a bias that overrides their brain.  Politicians do not give people information. They give the media sound bites and clickbait headlines. What many politicians want to do is chum the waters for political fish. When I see people posting chum in my Internet feeds, I unfollow them. I don’t see their face are opinions anywhere on the Internet.

Sometimes, I don’t unfriend or disconnect from people. I just unfollow Friends Who Post Politics on the Internet.

Acting out of Anger

The Internet is immediate, powerful, and permanent. Deleting things that you may regret doesn’t always save people from the negative responses. I have seen screenshots of deleted tweets, posts, and comments. To avoid posting things you will regret, write them down on your device. Come back to them in a couple of days to see whether you still want to post them.

When my gut tells me that I am posting something sketchy, I side with my gut. There is absolutely nothing I can post in a forum that is worth risking my reputation.

Changing People’s Beliefs

There is often little chance of changing the opinion of other people. We all want to see things that reinforce our beliefs.  On social, religious, and political issues, our feelings can easily override our judgement. When we argue with people, they are defending their beliefs. They are not changing their beliefs. Moreover, they may deepen their beliefs and hold resentments against us.

Thank You for Not Giving Us Your Political Opinions

Politics: A Majority Are Sick of It.

Thank you for not giving us your political opinion. ~ www.jaywren.com

The news of politics wears on people. Most Americans are tired of hearing about politics.

Looking for headlines to cover, the media hover over current events for political sound bites. Add to those soundbites the in-depth coverage of speeches and now conventions. Furthermore, candidates are starting to hit the media with advertising campaigns.

Pause Before Posting

Sharing online stories is as easy as clicking a share button. However, if the story is about politics, pause before posting. Your friends and connections are probably tired of hearing about it.

They get more than a daily dose from major media.

If you feel the need to wake people up to your cause, they are probably already tired of hearing about that cause. Apathy in politics is different from political exhaustion. People aren’t indifferent. The media have burned them out on politics.

What is Your Goal?

It is always good to remember to ask ourselves why we are on social media. Is it our goal to make new friends and expand our business network?  Is it our goal to reconnect with friends and business connections?

Or is our goal really to promote a political agenda?

Knowing the goal is important.

When politicians are on the campaign stump, the best politicians say things that draw headlines. The media people pick these things from political speeches and write their headlines. Conservative, liberal, and progressive media use headlines to draw subscribers. Promoting your career with politics is a good idea for people with political careers. It is less of a good idea for people who are not in politics.

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