Transitioning from being an Angry Person to a Happy Person

Happiness in a Controversial World

I wrote this post for my own mental and emotional well-being. Perhaps some of these suggestions will help you.

Changing How I See and Feel About My World

For me, the constant wave of negative news is overwhelming. I can take control of the information that I expose myself to with these steps:

Curate My News Sources: Follow reputable news outlets that provide balanced reporting. Consider subscribing to newsletters or apps that deliver only highlights, so I am not bombarded with every single development.

Set Time Limits: Allocate specific times during the day to catch up on news, rather than consuming it constantly. This can help me stay informed without feeling inundated.

Filter My Social Media: Unfollow accounts or mute topics that frequently share distressing content. Instead, follow accounts that inspire or bring joy.

Focus on Positive Stories: Seek out websites or segments that highlight uplifting, human-interest stories to balance the negativity.

Engage in Media-Free Activities: Take breaks from screens and spend time doing activities that bring me peace—whether that’s reading, gardening, exercising, or simply enjoying a hobby.

Practice Mindfulness: When I feel overwhelmed, I can pause and practice mindfulness or meditation. This practice can help me remain grounded despite troubling headlines.

Create a Balanced News Diet

Creating a balanced “news diet” involves consuming information thoughtfully and intentionally, much like maintaining a healthy diet. Here’s how I can do it:

Diversify My Sources: Rely on a mix of reputable news outlets to get different perspectives. This prevents over-reliance on one source and reduces bias.

Balance the Content: Include both hard news (current events, politics, global issues) and soft news (human-interest stories, culture, science advancements).

Schedule News Time: Set aside specific times to catch up on news. Avoid checking headlines constantly throughout the day.

Include Positive News: Incorporate uplifting sources like the *Good News Network* or *Positive News* to balance out the negativity.

Avoid Doomscrolling: Be mindful of how much time I spend scrolling through distressing or sensational headlines on social media.

Critical Thinking: Question the sources, motives, and accuracy of the news I am consuming. Look for articles with citations and well-supported arguments.

Limit Opinion Pieces: While editorials can provide context, focus on factual reporting to avoid getting swept up in emotionally charged takes.

Take Breaks: Media-free days can help me recharge mentally and emotionally.