Month: November 2024

Words That Make us Stronger, Smarter, and Happier

Do you ever turn to famous quotes to inspire and motivate yourself. When we are dealing with stress, quotes can help us accept our situation and do things things to solve the very problems that are causing the stress.

“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.” ~John Wooden

“Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt

“It’s not that I’m so smart. It’s just that I stay with problems longer.” ~Albert Einstein

“Holding onto your anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” ~Buddha

“We don’t see things the way they are. We see them the way we are.” ~Talmud

“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.” ~Robert Frost

“The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

“A bird doesn’t sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song.” ~Maya Angelou

“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.” ~John Wooden

“The two most important days of your life are the day that you’re born and the day that you find out why.” ~Mark Twain

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When You Don’t Have the Job You Want, Bring Passion to the Job You Have

When You Don’t Have the Job You Want Bring Joy to the Job You Have ~ Jay Wren

“There is scarcely any passion without struggle.”
Albert Camus, The Myth of Sisyphus and Other Essays

Most people just need a job. To enjoy the job, they pack passion in their lunch pails as part of finding joy in their job.  These people find pursuing their passion in just doing the job.

People who have tremendous success doing what they love to do are very fortunate.

THE MYTH OF SISYPHUS

Sisyphus was a brilliant king and founder of ancient Corinth.  According to Greek mythology, the god Hades condemned Sisyphus for eternity to push an immense boulder up a hill, only to let it roll down the hill and then push it back up again.

It is very easy for anyone to feel that same way about his or her own life:  Same hill, same rock, different day.

However, the French writer/philosopher Albert Camus saw how people pursuing their passion could find their passion in the daily activity of doing their job.

Camus wrote a great essay called “The Myth of Sisyphus.”

With a beginner’s understanding of French, I read the essay in French.

The subject of the book deals with existentialism. The existentialists viewed life as a pointless grind.

No task brought fulfillment.

In the essay, Camus evaluates existential philosophers in the first three of four chapters.

In chapter 4, Camus says that the only logical way to view life as having meaning was to see Sisyphus’s punishment a unique way.

Sisyphus could change his punishment to pursuing his passion in how he viewed pushing the rock.  From Camus’s point of view, the beauty of life is not reaching the top of the hill but pushing the rock.

The joy of the workday comes from focusing on the work, not the start and ending of another day.  People who view life this way are always pursuing their passion through their brighter way of looking at life.

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Mark Twain

Books are the liberated spirits of men.” Mark Twain

Read more and see the video. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain is a powerful work that has had a significant impact on society in many ways, including:

Influencing other writers

Twain’s use of accurate dialects and the voice of the story influenced other writers, such as J. D. Salinger and Stephen Crane, Vernon God Little , Ernest Hemingway, William Dean Howells, Stephen Crane, Arthur Miller, Harper Lee, William Faulkner, and others

Creating an authentic American voice

Hemingway believed that Twain’s novel created an authentic American voice, and broke with the English language inherited from Great Britain. Additionally, Mark Twain used the language and dialects of the characters in his books.

How Locked-In Beliefs Close Our Minds to Opportunities for a Better Life

Intelligence, Common Sense, and Locked-In Beliefs: Understanding the Difference

In our daily lives, we often hear the terms “intelligence” and “common sense” used interchangeably. However, these two concepts, while related, are distinct in several important ways. Understanding the difference between them can help us appreciate the unique contributions each makes to our decision-making and problem-solving abilities.

What is Intelligence?

Intelligence is a multifaceted concept that encompasses a person’s ability to learn, understand, and apply knowledge. It involves various cognitive processes such as reasoning, problem-solving, and abstract thinking. Intelligence is often measured through standardized tests that assess different aspects of cognitive ability, such as IQ tests.

What is Common Sense?

Common sense, on the other hand, refers to the ability to make sound judgments and decisions based on practical knowledge and everyday experience. It is often described as “good sense” or “sound judgment” in practical matters. Unlike intelligence, common sense does not require specialized knowledge or formal education. Instead, it is acquired through life experiences and observations.

Dictionary.com defines common sense as sound practical judgment that is independent of specialized knowledge, training, or the like; normal native intelligence.

What are “locked-in beliefs?”

Beliefs are personal convictions about what is true.

Beliefs become locked-in when people only expose themselves to input that makes them feel good.

Locked-in beliefs often have a powerful negatively emotional punch. When people read, see, or hear things that are different or contrary to their beliefs, they often get angry. Under that anger in a subtle more threatening way is fear.

People perceive these differences as threatening.  Common examples that make people threatened are politics, race or ethnicity, religion, even sports rivalries.

The most common sources of information that strengthen the lock of our beliefs include politically-based cable news networks, political talk show radio, politically slanted newspaper articles, social media, or any other source of information that is consistent with our beliefs.

People can challenge their limiting beliefs by acknowledging them and questioning them as facts.

How Locked-In Beliefs Close Your Mind to Opportunities to a Better life

While intelligence refers to the broader ability to learn, reason, and solve problems, common sense is a more practical form of judgment used in everyday situations, and beliefs are personal convictions about the world, often shaped by experiences and culture, which may or may not align with factual knowledge or logic; essentially, intelligence is about cognitive capacity, common sense is about practical application of knowledge, and beliefs are personal convictions about what is true.

Beliefs,on the other hand, create a platform that defies intelligence and common sense. They can divide people, destroy friendships, and lead people to make decisions and act when these decisions and acts are not in a person’s best interests.

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